This is why I worry!

The church is booked for the date we wanted.  They are available the next weekend, but our reception venue of choice has a temp. hold.  SO...can we work it out so both can be reserved on our "back up" date?  Can we marry at another local church because ours is booked?  Trust me, I have called everyone I can think of to get these answers...I am super anxious and I just want ONE of the dates to work out!